RELEVANT Magazine on Instagram: "Dr. Alison Cook reminds us that one of the first steps toward healing is recognizing that God is not the same as the people who hurt you. It’s easier said than done. But untangling your understanding of God from the failures of His people is essential—not by forcing yourself back into a broken space, but by grieving what happened, reclaiming your faith on your own terms, and remembering that Christ never asked you to stay loyal to dysfunction.⁠ ⁠ You might face c